As caregivers, we do what we have to do; unfortunately, that often requires us to be the squeaky wheel clamoring for some grease.

I just heard another story this week that drives home the importance of being an advocate for your senior. My friend’s mother, who has dementia and cannot communicate, developed severe symptoms a few days ago prompting the nursing home to transport her to the hospital.

Once there, they began running tests to determine what was going on. The medical team kept coming back to one particular diagnosis, but my friend just didn’t think the pieces added up. She pushed for the doctors to check a few other things, and sure enough, the initial dx was incorrect and would have required an entirely different course of treatment.

Thankfully, my friend’s mother had someone there to advocate for her and to raise questions when things didn’t seem quite right. Docs do their best, but they’re not perfect. You know your loved one better than anyone, so when what you’re hearing doesn’t make sense, speak up. The worst that can happen is that you’re wrong, but at least you will have expressed your concerns.

The same holds true for long-term care. The only way to make sure your loved one is receiving proper care is to remain involved. Ratios in traditional style facilities are ridiculous, and in a business where nobody should be “cutting corners,” it happens all the time.

My latest piece on Caregivers talks more about this topic.

Click here to check it out —> Caregiving 101: Be the Squeaky Wheel.

Remember that everything isn’t always as it seems on the surface, and changes are bound to occur over time. Staying on top of things day in and day out will help to ensure quality care, as well as lessen your chances of having regrets or guilt down the road.

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