If this photo doesn’t touch your heart, you may not have one.
This is my lifelong best friend sitting with Mom today. Ah, the memories we share! Debby practically lived with us during those turbulent teen years. In fact, she actually did move in once for a few days, dresser drawers and all. (((Smile))) My mom was her second mother and loved her like a daughter (got just as mad at her as her own daughter sometimes, too).
Debby is one of the few who can appreciate the “look that could kill” that we still see from Mom from time to time and the way she says “NO!” when she means business.
Having gone through this with her own grandparents, I can imagine how difficult it is to see Mom this way, yet she is here for us – the good, bad, and the ugly. And that means the absolute world to me, to Jess, and in some sense, to my mom – even now. I firmly believe that although she may not be able to place the face, she knows Debby’s love.
When it is all said and done, Debby, I’ll never forget your love for my mom and your unwavering support over the years. Love you so much.
Tears and smiles….thanks for sharing. Eason House is just the right distance from Galloway. I get about 20 minutes to reflect, cry and regain composure before arriving home.
Sweet Marilyn is very special to me. I’m very familiar with the “look that could kill” (most of the time it was deserved) but I also remember her smile, laugh and gentle eyes. I so hoped to have a glimpse of my old Marilyn today. In a way, I guess I did when she said “no”.
I think it’s almost harder to watch the progression of the disease with Marilyn than with my grandparents. In my mind, she’s just too young. If anything good could ever come out of this terrible situation, it’s that so many people are being touched by your passionate writing and advocating for those that suffer from Alzheimers. In the midst of bad days where yelling, anxiety and agitation outweigh the peaceful moments, it seems the only positive outcome is your ability to write about the experience and help others.
Love you guys so much and wish I had a magic wand…
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