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adult coloring books, caregiver mini respite, caregiver stress, caregiver tips, grown up coloring
As much as the world has come to depend on technology, I sometimes find myself wondering if it’s a blessing or a curse. The benefits gained as a result of computers, smartphones, and tablets are irrefutable; however, these things have also ushered in the era of being connected 24x7x365. Multitasking has practically become an Olympic sport, as it’s done to an increasingly absurd degree.
Looking For a Reprieve?
Whether you’re a full-time caregiver or someone who has a full-time career and oversees the care of a loved one, you know what it feels like to be overwhelmed and on the verge of burnout. You yearn for simpler times and wish you could just turn it all off (both figuratively and literally) for a few hours!
My caregiving days are over, but with a full-time-and-then-some career as well as writing, advocacy, and volunteer pursuits on the side, and the usual life/home maintenance activities, things can get dicey. Like most of the rest of the world, I struggle with priorities and balance some days more than others.
Stress has a significant bearing on our overall health and wellness, and caregivers know this better than anyone. So with life moving at such a fast pace, how do we find time for respite when a month in Hawaii or even just a quiet week at home isn’t in the cards?
When all else fails, grab a coloring book!
Next time you feel your priorities are askew, your perspective is out of whack, or your brain is just craving a time out, pick up a coloring book!
As unlikely as it sounds, Scottish artist Johanna Basford has sold over 1.4 million copies of her first adult coloring book, Secret Garden. The follow up, Enchanted Forest, appears to be following suit; both books are sold out on Amazon and BN.com!
In this article by Katelyn Murphy, Basford explains that she simply set out to create a coloring book she would enjoy. Noting the carefree nature of children, she wondered if an activity as simple as coloring might bring calm to an otherwise chaotic adult world. To her surprise, thousands of others desperate for a bit of relaxation sans smartphone or other electronic devices decided she was onto something.
Sound interesting? Just Google “Adult Coloring” or do a search on Pinterest and prepare to be amazed! This stress-busting diversion is a piece of cake to get into, requiring very little time and just a few inexpensive materials. Here is a great list of 16 Colouring Books Perfect for Grown-ups, courtesy of BuzzFeed.
My First Grown Up Coloring Experience
In the interest of, ahem, science, I decided I should check this out for myself so I stopped at Barnes & Noble over the weekend and picked up my first “grown up” coloring book. With a dozen or so options to choose from, I selected Peace & Love by Thaneeya McArdle and settled on a set of 12 Rikota Brush Markers (which, by the way, I love!).
The book begins with a few basics on coloring mediums, an explanation of the color wheel, and some beautiful examples of bright designs in rich, vivid, “feel good” tones. Just flipping through the pages had me eager to let my inner artist run wild and sure enough after about an hour I decided that perhaps I’ve been looking for Zen in all the wrong places.
I really enjoyed this time, and focusing on the detailed pattern cleared my mind of its usual pandemonium (no small feat). There’s something about the act of coloring that really is Zen-like, and I think that feeling, combined with the overall sense of joy found in creative pursuits, makes this a great temporary escape from reality.
So to all of my co-workers: should you come by my office tomorrow and find me coloring – worry not! It’s just a few minutes of calm in the midst of a typical frenetic workday, and if you’re extra nice, I might even let you use my markers!
I’d love to hear from others on this topic. What do you think? Have you or would you give coloring a try at this stage in your life? Why or why not? If you’ve already found it to be something you enjoy, tell us about your experience.
I’d probably give this a try – sounds very calming.
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It really is, Mary… extremely calming.
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I color every day. I have not heard about these books before but I definitely will now. I color “mandalas.” You can Google them online. Very, very relaxing. And no one cares if go outside the lines!!
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Another example of life coming full circle, Jan. And you’re right – no judgment about wild, mismatched colors or going outside the lines. I hung my finished sun on my office door at work and it makes me smile. 🙂
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Wonderful, Ann. It reminds me of mandala making or sandtray or painting my dreams or any of the things I do (sometimes, but not enough) to soothe and center. After Vic died, I kept watercolors and paper out on the kitchen counter so I could keep working on a piece. I painted my way through lonely night. It kept me sane.
I thought my caregiver days were over, too, but I’m still caring for my mother-in-law seven years after her son’s death. She’s 99 and losing memory for the first time. She dealt with the grief of losing her only child with raw anger, but now as age softens the edges, the mother’s grief rises to the surface. She asks where he is and either I tell her or she figures it out before I do. Then come the tears of disbelief.
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(((Elaine)))… one of the most heartbreaking things I’ve witnessed is that moment when someone living with dementia realizes (again) that their spouse or child has died. Reliving that grief – the pain of that fresh wound over and over again. One of the more cruel aspects of the disease indeed…..
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