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Memorial Day

27 Monday May 2013

Posted by Ann Napoletan in Grieving, Life After Caregiving, Mom, Ruminations, Saying Goodbye

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mom…Memorial Day – a time to remember all who made the ultimate sacrifice to protect our freedom. So many young lives lost much, much too soon. May God bless and keep them, and bring peace and comfort to their families.

I remember as a little girl, Memorial Day was also a time to visit the cemetery, bring fresh flowers, and clean up grandma and grandpa’s graves. These days, things are a little different, I guess. Cremation is often chosen as opposed to traditional burial, so those visits to the cemetery are becoming a thing of the past.

Mom’s ashes are still tucked away safely, on a shelf in my bedroom. I imagine they’ll be there awhile. She always talked about wanting to be sprinkled out west, perhaps along the rugged Oregon coastline that she loved so much. I hope the day comes when I feel ready to give her that final gift. Right now, I really can’t even imagine opening that box… Someday, but not yet. Not quite yet.
Hug your loved ones today….

 

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A Visit to Eason House

24 Friday May 2013

Posted by Ann Napoletan in Alzheimers.net, Blogging, Eason House, Grieving, Life After Caregiving, Mom, Saying Goodbye

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kermitI stopped by Eason House yesterday for a visit. I don’t think I’ll ever get used to how quiet the place is without Mom there; two of the ladies were sleeping, another was resting in her chair, and the fourth disappeared to her room shortly after I arrived. My mom’s room still sits empty, and I’m not sure if that’s good or bad. It will definitely be strange to see someone else take that space, but maybe it will be a positive change – a sign that life carries on after loss.

While I was there, cute little Nico came in – Mom loved him so much. No matter what kind of day she was having, when she saw that adorable face, she lit up and truly came to life. Well, now almost six months later, Nico is walking – he’s no longer a baby. When I saw him, my mind immediately went to Mom and how she would have been absolutely crazy about those bright, inquisitive toddler eyes and chunky cherub cheeks. Time marches on, doesn’t it? I guess the one constant we can count on in life is change…

That being said… life after Alzheimer’s isn’t for the faint of heart. As I write in my latest Alzheimers.net post, After Alzheimer’s: Facing the Grief, I think I miss Mom more with each passing day… I wonder when the sense of loss and sadness will begin to ease.

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This, That, and the Other…

15 Wednesday May 2013

Posted by Ann Napoletan in A Place for Mom, Advocacy and Awareness, Alzheimers.net, Blogging, Caregivers, Events, Grieving, Helpful Resources, Life After Caregiving, Mom, Polls, Saying Goodbye

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I would love it if you would take just a second to click over to USAgainstAlzheimer’s and complete this super quick survey. In just 3 minutes, you’ll be helping to collect valuable data, and a $1 donation will be made to USAgainstAlzheimer’s for each survey completed! Tell your friends, too!

Next, I’d like to share information regarding an important upcoming event open to everyone. On May 22 (next week), at 2pm (ET), George Vradenburg, founder of USAgainstAlzheimer’s will host a conference call to discuss the top issues we face in the fight against ALZ. To sign up, simply click here –> Register for the May 22 call.

Last, but not least, remember to check out A Place For Mom‘s newest blog offering, the Alzheimer’s Resource Blog. My current article takes a look at the concept of the “long goodbye.” How does the ongoing grief felt throughout a loved one’s illness relate to the grief experienced with the final loss. The answer might surprise you…

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