
Posted by Ann Napoletan | Filed under Inspiration
10 Sunday Feb 2013
09 Saturday Feb 2013
Earlier this week, Sarah Stevenson from A Place For Mom interviewed me for this piece providing some tips on how to deal with difficult behaviors, Dementia Care Dos & Don’ts: Dealing with Dementia Behavior Problems.
It was an interesting experience for me, as I looked back on years old blog posts for some reminders on how things evolved over time. I suppose with everything changing so quickly, you tend to live your life in reactionary mode most of the time. You deal with the issues at hand and then tuck them away just in time to address whatever comes next. You really do forget the details…
In an odd way, I’m really glad I chronicled so much of it through blogging. Some people may think that’s strange – why would you want to go back and relive it? I can’t quite find the words to explain, but somehow there is a unique comfort in having the experiences – good, bad, and ugly – documented…
06 Wednesday Feb 2013
Posted in Blogging, Caregivers.com, Grieving, Inspiration, Life After Caregiving, Mom, Ruminations, Saying Goodbye
To the degree that it’s possible, today’s Caregivers’ piece, Life After Loss: Seven Weeks Later, describes where my head is. I can’t seem to find the words – or put them together properly – to truly convey the plethora of conflicting thoughts and emotions floating around in my mind. Each day holds something slightly different, and today there was a moment when I found myself wishing beyond words that I could have just one more hug… just one. Whether we care to admit it or not, at the end of the day no matter how old we are, there’s still a child within. Today, I guess my inner child was yearning for a mom hug – a sort of comfort that nothing else in this world can replace.
I hope you’ll also take a minute to read a brilliant piece by Elaine Mansfield. Elaine writes so beautifully; it’s as if you’re right there soaking up these once in a lifetime special moments with her. The experience she describes in My Mother’s Blessing: Touching Hearts With An Alzheimer’s Patient will take you from tears to joy and back again… it’s incredibly moving.