A Message for Families Just Beginning Their Journey…

Do you know someone who has recently been touched by Alzheimer’s?

This journey is never planned and always overwhelming. And unfortunately, it is without detailed itineraries or the latest GPS technology to aid in navigation. However, it’s so very important for loved ones to know that they are never alone. There are a multitude of resources available today, whether help is needed with financial concerns, care options, or just overall emotional support.

Don’t let anyone travel this road alone…

 

Until next time… Carpe diem…

Mamasita

There was a bit of nostalgia at the office this past week, and it really made me think about mom’s career, the wonderful times she shared with so many friends, and the difference she made in the lives of those who had the privilege of working with her.

We had a nice visit today; she was tired, but in a pleasant mood. Apparently, she didn’t sleep much last night.  Sounds like she gave Shana a run for her money going from sink to sink turning on faucets and playing other mischievous games until 5:30 this morning!  It’s reassuring to know that while her mind is slowly melting away, her spunk certainly remains.

Sometimes, I really have to work to remember her the way she used to be, and I hope that in time that changes.  I hope there will come a day that when I think of her, the first thought that pops into my mind is the “old Marilyn” we all knew and loved so much.

Until then, I’m thankful for every moment of joy we are able to share.  I don’t think I’ll ever tire of watching her face light up when she sees me come in the door. ♥

… Until next time… Carpe diem…

Great resource – free, and at your fingertips!

A Place for Mom has revamped their website.  Be sure to check it out!  Whether you’re in need of their eldercare advisory services or not, this site contains a wealth of great information!

If you or someone you know is struggling with the stress of finding senior care, refer them to the site.  A Place for Mom advisors are local, so they are familiar with your area.  The service is free, and can be a huge time saver in that they have a complete list of senior housing/care options in all 50 states.  After learning about your loved one’s unique circumstances, both medical and financial, they’ll even do the leg work of setting up appointments and tours for you.

The service is free, however the caveat is that they are paid by communities in their network.  That being said, you will find the corporate giants on their list (i.e. Emeritus, Brookdale, etc.).  But, they’ll also have other options.  Without A Place for Mom, I probably wouldn’t have known that Eason House (or even that care concept) existed, so I am forever grateful for my wonderful advisor.

Bottom line, go in with your eyes wide open, realizing that you still need to follow your instincts and do your homework. Knowing what to ask is critical, as is recognizing that extravagant decor and high rent don’t necessarily equate to good care.

Look for a post soon on some tips and other resources that will help you in your search. When I think back to my naiveté when we began this journey, I absolutely cringe. If I can be a part of helping someone avoid the pitfalls I fell into, it will be well worth the time spent.  And, don’t forget to check out A Place for Mom’s redesigned site for all kinds of great information.

… Until next time… Carpe diem…