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Still Alice: Breaking Through Old Stereotypes

28 Saturday Feb 2015

Posted by Ann Napoletan in Advocacy and Awareness, ALZ Assn - National, Books, Celebrities, Early Onset, Face of Alzheimer's, Films, Helpful Resources, Inspiration

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This past week, I had the pleasure of attending a screening of Still Alice followed by a panel discussion organized by our local chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association. I’d seen the film the first day of the wide release, but watching it for the second time was a completely different experience.

The event was sold out, which in and of itself felt like a victory. Just being in that space with so many people united in the dream of a world without Alzheimer’s was overwhelming.

Julianne Moore’s portrayal of Alice is brilliant, no doubt largely due to the careful research she did for the part. Last month, Sandy Oltz, Moore’s personal consultant and inspiration for the film, spoke at the Alzheimer’s Association’s Leadership Summit in Orlando. Sandy was diagnosed with younger onset at age 47. In many ways, she is the real life Alice; educated, accomplished, strong, beautiful, a wife and mother, and living with Alzheimer’s.

 Please do not think I am suffering. I am not suffering. I am struggling, struggling to be a part of things, to stay connected to who I once was. So, ‘live in the moment’ I tell myself. It’s really all I can do, live in the moment.

 

Sandy Oltz

Whether or not to see Still Alice, or when to see the movie and in what setting, is a very personal decision. I had the book on my Kindle for a couple of years before I worked up the courage to read it, and then it was only because I was going to be hearing Lisa Genova speak.

If you have lived the reality of Alzheimer’s disease, this film will be difficult to watch. It will inevitably remind you of moments with your own loved one: moments of anger, frustration, and fear. But it will also bring forth memories of a love the depth of which cannot be described. A love that goes far beyond words into a realm we never knew existed.

Still Alice has the power to change the way the world views Alzheimer’s. This movie represents a breakthrough. Alice is far from the stereotypical Alzheimer’s patient, and the message is simple: Alice Howland could be any of us.

There but for the grace of God go I.

We can only hope that as this powerful film works its way into the mainstream, people are inspired to join the movement to #ENDALZ. Because at the end of the day, it’s really just about love…

 

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Lincoln Journal Star refers to Alzheimer’s as “Disease of the Week”

22 Sunday Feb 2015

Posted by Ann Napoletan in Advocacy and Awareness

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Friends,

It seems there is a rather uneducated movie critic writing for the Lincoln, Nebraska, Journal Star! Clearly, he needs our help!

Columnist Kent Wolgamott wrote a piece about the Oscars, in which he referred to Still Alice as a “Depressing ‘Disease of the Week’ movie.”

I think we should help educate Mr. Wolgamott as to what the Alzheimer’s journey is really all about. Please join me in reaching out to him at any or all of the following:

    • Email: kwolgamott@journalstar.com
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lkent.wolgamott?fref=ts
    • Twitter: @LJSWolgamott
    • Phone: 402-473-7244

I would also encourage you to let the Lincoln Journal Star know your thoughts on this article.

  • Publisher Amy Thomas:  athomas@journalstar.com or 402-473-7146
  • Editor Dave Bundy: dbundy@journalstar.com or 402-473-7334
  • Twitter: @ljournalstar or @ljournalstarnews
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LincolnJournalStar

Quite honestly, I’m amazed something like this made it across an editor’s desk. Blatant  disrespect for the millions of Americans dealing with Alzheimer’s every day of their lives.  Shame on you Lincoln Journal Star!

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Still Alice: Bringing Alzheimer’s into the Spotlight + Book Giveaway

20 Monday Oct 2014

Posted by Ann Napoletan in Advocacy and Awareness, Books, Early Onset, Events, Face of Alzheimer's, Facts & Figures, Films, Giveaways, Helpful Resources, Inspiration, Ruminations, USAgainstAlzheimer's, Washington

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_____ CONTEST CLOSED _____

“Interesting subject, seems it’s becoming very topical.”

Last week, I attended a wonderful fundraiser featuring Dr. Lisa Genova, author of the New York Times best selling novel, Still Alice.

I overheard the aforementioned statement at the reception prior to the main event. Becoming very topical??? Excuse me if I’m a bit passionate, but this illustrates the fact that we have much more work to do. While awareness has increased significantly over  the past 10 years, the mainstream population still doesn’t grasp the gravity of the epidemic we’re facing.

Those of us personally affected understand the urgency surrounding Alzheimer’s. We are terrified that we might be next. This disease has changed our perspective in countless ways, but there are too many people who are still in the dark. It’s often said there are two kinds of people; those who have been personally touched by Alzheimer’s and those who will be.

Educating the Masses

Moments after hearing the rather lackadaisical remark, I had the opportunity to meet Dr. Genova, herself a neuroscientist by education. I thanked her for all she’s doing to raise awareness among the masses because she is reaching people who wouldn’t typically seek out a book about a woman with Alzheimer’s. Book clubs across America are reading Still Alice; people are being touched deeply and inspired to get involved. Readers are beginning to understand the disease and talk about it. With that we’ll begin chip away at the stigma and shame associated with dementia.

Remember when no one wanted to utter the word “cancer” or discuss HIV? It wasn’t until movements were created around these killer diseases that things began to change. My sincere hope is that the press Still Alice is receiving will stir the masses. The reality is, people need to get good and pissed off. Every son, daughter, husband, wife, partner, brother, sister, friend, neighbor, co-worker must understand that sooner or later they too will experience the wrath of Alzheimer’s firsthand unless we take action in a major way.

Graphic: USAgainstAlzheimer’s

We must let our government know it’s absurd to think that Alzheimer’s disease is the only leading cause of death without a means to cure, prevent, or even slow its progress. It’s utterly  incomprehensible that we’re spending $215 billion annually on Alzheimer’s care in the United States and a mere $500 million on research. And people need to know that this is not just a disease of the elderly.

Understanding Younger Onset

In Still Alice, Alice Howland is a brilliant cognitive psychology professor and world-renowned linguistics expert, who at age 50 begins to have trouble finding words. She’s becoming increasingly confused, disoriented, and forgetful. This highly accomplished, well educated, far from elderly, woman has younger onset Alzheimer’s. The disease takes hold and doesn’t let go.

I must be honest. I’ve had this book on my Kindle for several years, and I haven’t worked up the courage to read it. There’s something about the idea of knowing what it feels like in those early years. Fear, denial, a desperate desire to keep the secret and hide the fact that something is terribly wrong. These are all things my mom must have experienced, and the thought of that breaks my heart. She must have felt so alone in those early years, quite possibly even before she retired at age 61, as she started to realize the brain she had always taken for granted was now failing her.

You are so much more than what you remember.

Dr. Genova’s exhaustive research included speaking with many individuals living with younger onset Alzheimer’s. While the book is a work of fiction, it’s very much based in the reality of living with this disease. People in their 40s, 50s, and 60s are living Alice’s story every single day. As my 50th birthday looms around the corner, that hits a little too close to home.

Still Alice, the movie, will be released widely in January, and there is already talk of multiple Oscar nominations. As someone whose life was changed forever by this horrific disease I am so thankful to Dr. Genova, executive producer Maria Shriver, and everyone involved in the making of this film. Together, they are making a difference, changing the way America views Alzheimer’s, and helping to bring it out of the shadows.

Raise Your Voice

Last month at the WomenAgainstAlzheimer’s Summit in Washington, we heard from leading researchers Dr. Reisa Sperling (Brigham and Women’s) and  Dr. Kate Zhong (Cleveland Clinic) among others. Their talks were filled with hope. Great work being done in research centers across the country, and each day we’re getting closer. The day will come when we have a cure or at least a viable way to slow the disease’s progression, but we have to keep fighting.

Graphic: USAgainstAlzheimer’s

In a few weeks, we’ll be heading to the polls. There’s no time like the present to call or write your senators and representatives! Let them know how important this issue is. Remind them that every 67 seconds, someone is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and that if we remain on the current trajectory, the cost of care in the U.S. alone will exceed $1.2 trillion by the year 2050. Tell them your personal story. Let your voice be heard!

Postscript

After writing this piece, I gathered my courage, sat down, and read Still Alice cover to cover. While the book is fiction, I believe the author’s careful research resulted in a very realistic depiction of younger onset Alzheimer’s. Alice’s story is tender, frightening, and certainly thought-provoking, but mostly, it’s a wonderful reminder that our loved ones living with dementia are very much alive and present.

Those living with this disease are capable of experiencing love and joy, just as they are able to feel sorrow and loss. We must remember they still have so much to contribute to our world and they deserve every opportunity to do so. As critical as research is, we must also focus on those living with Alzheimer’s today and do everything possible to support their needs and the needs of their families and caregivers. 

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One lucky reader (continental U.S only, please) will receive a copy of Still Alice, signed by the author. To enter, simply leave a comment on this post. A random winner will be drawn on November 1st to mark the beginning of Alzheimer’s Awareness Month. Best of luck!

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